Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Relationship Issues: Are You Spiritually Ready?

By coincidence only, I'm reading about and listening to information today on relationships. At this very moment, Linda Dominique Grosvenor is on on Love Talk radio. She is the author of The Plural Thing, a book on being spiritually prepared for your soul mate, and it seems she writes from a Christian perspective.

Earlier at BlogHer, I admitted on AVFlox's post, as I have admitted on some of personal posts, that I am not ready for a relationship and definitely am not the marrying kind. However, I was married for 20-plus years.

I don't think I'll ever want a long-term relationship again. People keep telling me that will change, but it's been five years and I still feel the same way.

Babz is a good talk show host. I was on her show two weeks ago and recited my poem "Light and Only Light (I am Goddess)," which is about relationships on my terms.

Babz, who is currently divorced, just told Grosvenor that she wants to be married again and likes it. She's more domestic than I am. :-)

I agree with Grosvenor that if you mind your business, it's more likely the right person will come along. I feel that when we're actively seeking a mate, we attract crazy people.

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