As I drove across the Causeway Friday above Lake Pontchartrain in the middle of a rainstorm, I considered the possibility of my car careening over the rail due to an out-of-control-vehicle (that's a thing here, wondering whether you'll go over guard rail while crossing some body of water), and I thought, "Nobody would rescue me in this kind of weather."
Cars flipping over the Causeway guardrail happens more often than I care to contemplate. Apparently yesterday, a driver's truck went over the side into the lake, and this is what happened. As Alvin Pike was driving to work, "the pickup truck in front of him suddenly hit the [Causeway's] left guardrail and careened back to the right side of the bridge," reports the Times Picayune." So, Alvin stopped his car, halted other drivers, and jumped into the lake to save the man. Great story! Pike's so modest. Like most heroes he says anybody else would have done the same.
According to the New Orleans Advocate, the driver was reaching for his cell phone when he lost control of his truck. Um, I would definitely not reach for a cell phone while driving over the lake. Bluetooth's the way to go.
Maybe I should keep a life vest on the font seat of my car. I was surprised to learn how many of the regular Causeway drivers carry them.
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Sunday, June 1, 2014
Monday, January 2, 2012
Happy New Year: Not a Resolution, But A Prayer
"Don't Let Me Be Understood" by Nina Simone
A little Nina Simone for the new year, 2012. I cannot resolve that we shall overcome all strife, racism, and injustice because no one person can resolve for the whole, but I can pray that we shall overcome.
A little Nina Simone for the new year, 2012. I cannot resolve that we shall overcome all strife, racism, and injustice because no one person can resolve for the whole, but I can pray that we shall overcome.
Saturday, December 3, 2011
Hungary's Popular "Negro" Candy Raises Eyebrows
When I took my family out to breakfast Saturday morning, my son, who should not have been surfing the Net during family time, chuckled loudly while looking at something on his Droid phone. He then showed me the picture of a black man holding up and looking at a bag of Negro, some kind of snack food. I laughed pretty hard, and my daughter laughed as well.
The bag clearly had foreign words on it, but none of us recognized the language. We figured the word "Negro" in big letters had nothing to do with black people and supposed that the product's name was one of those lost-in-translation situations in which the word negro means simply the color black. Still, when we returned home, I looked up the candy anyway and found out its origin.
Negro is a hard candy made from the byproducts of sour candy. Reportedly, it's named not for people of African descent but after its creator, P. Negro, an Italian confectioner. The candy is popular in Hungary, and according to the Hungarian food website, Chew.hu, "Negro ("NAY-GROW")" developed the candy in the 1920s. Decades later a Hungarian company produced it:
First produced by the precursors of today's Dreher beer company, in 1980, the Győr Biscuit and Wafer Factory (Győri Keksz- és Ostyagyár) began production the Negro. More recently, Győri Keksz was bought by France's Danone group, and now has the sole right to produce and market the famed "chimneysweeper of the throat." The Negro comes in several flavors, and while the recipes are a closely-held secret, the popular original variety contains mint and anis.Apparently the candy also goes by the name Negrók in Hungary and has the reputation for confusing police breathalzyer tests, says Chew.
House of Names, a company that sells family crest products, says the following about the Italian surname Negro:
The recorded variations of Negro include Negri, Negro, Nigri, Nigris, Nigra, Negris, Negrelli, Negrotto, Negrello, Negroni and many more. [Read more at HouseofNames.com.]Surfing the web, I found that the website Bad Record Covers also discusses this confection. It delves into an old controversy about the candy, and using a 2004 newspaper clip about a black girl who received the candy in her Halloween candy bag, the writer says:
The clipping above is from one of my favorite news stories ever. It was reported in a local paper around 2003. The pictured girl was trick-or-treating and a Yugoslav refugee gave her some Negro candy. The girl interpreted this as a racial insult and went crying all the way home.The website also has a much clearer picture of a bag of Negro.
I can’t say that I know more about the incident than was reported. It’s hard to believe that the non-English speaking immigrant was trying exercise racial hostility. The man was simply trying to conform to the odd American custom of trick-or-treating the best way he could. He probably thought that the local kids would enjoy some imported (yet foul) tasting candy.
The word Negro, uppercase and proper noun, or negro, lowercase and adjective, the color black: What's in a word, indeed! In this story of a man's name turned into a name brand, we find a mixture of sweet and sour, of amusing and bitter--the inevitable result of clashing cultures thick with extractions based on personal and ethnic history and extrapolation informed by a people's denigration. We hope one day such misunderstandings will resolve themselves until they become rare, but like Condoleezza Rice who declared recently that race will remain with us, we, too, may conclude that the difficult matter of this social construct--especially blackness--and the tedious challenges that come with difference will never vanish in the U.S.A.
It's like we can never truly overcome.
Globalization: the world is getting smaller; soon we will be nose to nose. As we scatter and squish ourselves into one place or another foreign to us, we stumble over odd artifacts--objects that seem strange to us, those who have previously known only our small corner of the globe, but objects that are nothing unusual or offensive to those who have known intimately their own nooks on Earth.
It's like we know nothing.
Each day our world becomes in more ways than we care to realize a postmodern society and we weave through it as disoriented subjects, undone peoples of postmodernity who have slipped unawares over a line. We stand, we find, in what feels like someone else's land but it is our own world exploded where we must learn to bob and weave through its cumbersome fragments, longing to grab and cling to any chunk of debris that may stabilize long us.
It's like we are all becoming Brathwaite's Arrivants and must stitch from these pieces "something torn and new" but we pray better.
Or as the Black Eyed Peas say:"
It's the abstract! ...It's like that.
Change your history, categories,
different people in the same territories
Sunday, November 27, 2011
Black Friday Mayhem: America's Running of the Bulls
I found the video I've posted above at Mashable; it shows a woman being nearly crushed to death as shoppers go wild, knocking down displays and each other at a Wal-Mart in Mesquite, Tex. Similar reports of Black Friday mayhem appeared on CNN's website yesterday, one about a grandfather and a "bloody arrest" at Wal-Mart, and another about a woman pepper spraying people at where? You guessed it! Wal-Mart.
In 2008, I and others reported that shoppers in a New York state Wal-Mart trampled an employee to death. Customers back then started camping out at 10:00 the night before in hopes of getting a $400 TV, some witnesses said. The death caused bloggers, pundits, and mainstream media talking heads to question the ethics of stores that offer steep sales--outrageously slashed prices on big ticket items--to lure customers to stores but then fail to provide adequate security. However, if you look at the video in this post, you may wonder if it's possible to provide security for customers in a materialism-induced frenzy.
We Americans watch and judge customs in other countries, such as Spain's Running of the Bulls, and say smugly, "Those people are insane!" But is our gory Black Friday sport all that different? Spain's Running of the Bulls began as a tradition but evolved into a competitive spectator sport. People get trampled; sometimes killed, and an audience watches. In Spain, they run from the bulls, beasts of burden; in America, we run toward the bulls, the power of capitalism, the burden of debt. American shoppers compete to snatch the the best deals on popular products, and each year the media cover the madness. People get trampled; sometimes killed, and an audience watches.
Thursday, October 20, 2011
The Incredible Case of the P.I. Moms from This American Life
With this podcast from Ira Glass and company at the public radio show This American Life, I'm simply sharing something I enjoyed. A great listen, including the music from Oceans 12. The show's teaser says:
What do you get when you take a P.I. firm, then add in a bunch of sexy soccer moms, official sponsorship from Glock, a lying boss, and delusions of grandeur?Life as fiction.
Sunday, September 11, 2011
What Do We Gain by Remembering Events like the 9/11 Attack, Hurricane Katrina, and Other Tragedies?
As I said on Twitter yesterday, "I was in New Jersey when [the] towers came down. I've written about it before. I don't know if I want to again just b/c of [this] 10 year anniversary." I grappled with whether or not to write anything about September 11 a decade later because it took me until 2004, a whole three years after September 11, 2001, to write anything at all about what I felt on that tragic day. For me, the words I wrote then, "Emotional Land Mines (Remembering 9/11)," still stand.
In the last paragraph of that piece, I said in that essay the following:
The seconds we take to reflect humanizes us, sensitizing us again to the incomprehensible, inoculating us against the incredulous so that we will not be a people at risk like those Santayana spoke of saying, “Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.” We are stronger because we remember.I did not start watching any of the memorial specials and documentaries in honor of the 10th anniversary until last night, and as I watched, I meditated on why it's still important, a decade later, to commemorate something so horrific as well as other moments of tragedy that draw sorrow to the surface. I meditate on our need to recall catastrophe each year when the annual Hurricane Katrina ceremonies begin here in New Orleans.
Why humans memorialize death and tragedy is a question studied frequently in Anthropology. For instance, this month the journal Anthropology News has published an entire issue on memorials and memorialization about not only how and why we are remembering September 11 and the destruction of The Towers and the 3067 lives lost but also how people in other parts of the world memorialize tragic events in their nations' history. It's a human thing to remember how death visits our lives.
The bombing of The Towers gave us a host of psychic demons to wrestle, and as I look back now, I see that just when I, an American, began to come to terms in 2004 with what I felt and experienced on September 11, 2001--a world-changing event that preceded a personal life-changing event, my divorce, which nearly killed me--my life was shaken again less than one year later with the flooding of New Orleans, my hometown. I have family members who lost their homes, left the city, and still have not returned. I live in a house that carries the quirks of reconstruction--missing light switches, different color schemes, the absence of heirlooms and old black and white photos, and sometimes sounds that make the head turn with expectations of seeing a loved one who is no longer here.
The bombing of The Towers gave us a host of psychic demons to wrestle, and as I look back now, I see that just when I, an American, began to come to terms in 2004 with what I felt and experienced on September 11, 2001--a world-changing event that preceded a personal life-changing event, my divorce, which nearly killed me--my life was shaken again less than one year later with the flooding of New Orleans, my hometown. I have family members who lost their homes, left the city, and still have not returned. I live in a house that carries the quirks of reconstruction--missing light switches, different color schemes, the absence of heirlooms and old black and white photos, and sometimes sounds that make the head turn with expectations of seeing a loved one who is no longer here.
A writer, who is not from New Orleans and not African-American but wonders whether the nation and media have gone overboard with the 10th Anniversary of 9/11, sent me an email a few days ago with a provocative question:
Observations about the media coverage notwithstanding, I will be sending an email to my fellow writer later in which I will say:
Do you share my slightly sick feeling that we are being manipulated into this orgy of national mourning for an event that yes, was horrible, but the body count--a no less horrible phrase--was nearly identical to that of Katrina, and that's not counting the diaspora that followed and / or those who died of stress-related maladies, including suicide, thereafter?I will not put her on the spot by mentioning her by name, but she asks a valid question. She is further troubled by the near-absence of black faces in the media flashbacks, the expert interviews, and various documentaries. I confess that I have made similar observations watching the memorial programs, not the official program from today with the family members at Ground Zero, but the retrospectives and documentaries that were run before today's official ceremony aired; however, I don't want to analyze such matters of absence at the moment.
Observations about the media coverage notwithstanding, I will be sending an email to my fellow writer later in which I will say:
"I do not consider the two events, 9/11 or the flooding of New Orleans, comparable historic events in any way that should cause us to examine how much attention one event gets over another in terms of equity. Both memories throttle my soul because I am an American as well as a daughter of New Orleans. But I do think that 9/11 was a bigger event psychically for the nation as a whole. Our fear of terrorism following that attack sucked us into two wars that touched families coast to coast."And then there is that word "attack." Hurricane Katrina was not an entity endowed with consciousness and so was not capable of intending to attack anyone or anything. Even if we address the manmade failure of the levee system, we cannot impart to that failure a human desire to destroy someone. I think being the victim of intentional violence, knowing that someone hates you enough to kill you and your family, carries with it a different set of emotions.
The bombing of The Towers and the Pentagon on September 11 as well as learning through the crash of United 93 in Pennsylvania that a greater destruction was intended revealed to us Americans our vulnerability in this shrinking world. The aftermath of Hurricane Katrina, however, showed us our vulnerability inside this relatively young nation boasting of equality for all: the clash of race and class in creeping degrees of hostility and ugliness.
And yet, both incidents also showed us the breadth and depth of our compassion and generosity toward each other as Americans, as humans.
None of these thoughts, however, explains why we feel compelled to mark the 10th anniversary of 9/11 or why each year down here in Louisiana we continue to mark the day Katrina nearly destroyed New Orleans and its surrounding parishes. But an idea of why we do what we do comes to me now perhaps more clearly than it did when I wrote "Emotional Land Mines."
None of these thoughts, however, explains why we feel compelled to mark the 10th anniversary of 9/11 or why each year down here in Louisiana we continue to mark the day Katrina nearly destroyed New Orleans and its surrounding parishes. But an idea of why we do what we do comes to me now perhaps more clearly than it did when I wrote "Emotional Land Mines."
Perhaps the reason for our compulsion to mark dates of great tragedy and recall them with the laying of wreaths, the unveiling of memorials, with art and payers is the need to remember how we as a people almost died, how we collectively faced near physical and emotional destruction. When we single out these dates, we reflect, we pause and recall not only loss and death but also that we are still here, that we are survivors, and with that recognition comes a sense of empowerment: We can survive tragedy. Knowing that we survived, we are better able to walk through dark tunnels into the unknown and face that light in the distance that could be a brilliant future or the damning headlights of a speeding train. Either way, we go on.
In addition to locating my old essay, while going through my files, I discovered a poem that I also wrote in 2004 with which I end this post, satisfied that I have given the 10th Anniversary of 9/11 the attention it deserves.
In addition to locating my old essay, while going through my files, I discovered a poem that I also wrote in 2004 with which I end this post, satisfied that I have given the 10th Anniversary of 9/11 the attention it deserves.
And We Go On
by Nordette Adams
Monday, September 13, 2004
Whittle an "S" on our chest:
Supernation!
… Charging all lights a brigade,
eclipsing amber waves
of obfuscation.
Boots and cape, red,
white, and blue,
zealous to leap 110 stories
of visceral weeping
for glory and honor
of our due
justice.
Liberty, lift up your skirt!
Rinse blood from its hem into the Hudson.
O! What is the cleanser that brings closure
to our pain?
© Copyright September 2004 Nordette Adams
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
A Brand New Camaro for $5.28?
It used to be that if it sounds too good to be true, then it's probably not true, but today the story opens:
If it sounds too good to be true, welcome to the world of penny auctions. It isn't a scam, people actually win, but there are things you should know before you jump in." ... Jonathan Mason from Frankenmuth is the proud owner of a brand new $35K Chevrolet Camaro, and you're not going to believe what he paid for it: $5.28.The car had only 123 miles when he won/bought it.
Penny Auctions? Every time I turn around there seems to be something new on the Web. Until I saw the CNN video about the guy winning the Camaro for five bucks, I had not heard of them, but they exist with names like SkoreIt and Quibids. In the video above, Kent Kerns from FastPennyCars.com explains how it works. If you watch the video, you'll also find out you can lose money on penny auction sites. The auctions sites themselves, however, make money.
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Computer-Generated Stars: Yeats, The Center Unravels Still
So, Japan has digitized commercial spokespeople and holographic rock stars.
Creation
By Nordette N. Adams
The new world comes at us fast:
Unhuman creatures, made to last.
Pretty zombies of our minds—
not of flesh, born of time—
will count our days and nights
as we inject nanobots to spite
our blood. Desperate, we fight Death
or God to overcome the soiled breath
we have called life.
Dust mocks us to the grave.
Is this our brave new world
or the long song of decay,
Yeats? No. It does not hold.
The center still unfolds.
© 2011 Nordette N. Adams
Friday, July 1, 2011
Feel Good Video: World Flash Mob from Eurovision Song Contest 2010
After reading the depressing New York Times article this morning about recent developments in the DSK rape case, I was glad I found this video. It's called the "world's largest flash mob dance video" produced by Eurovision Song Contest 2010, and I really needed to see something to make me feel better about humanity, at least a way to look at the brighter side of the species.
However, I don't think the flash mob in the video, which includes clips from people dancing in unison from around Europe, is technically bigger than Oprah's flash mob with the Blackeyed Peas. It had 21,000 people.
As for the DSK case, I feel that it's just another case of money talks. The alleged victim's past is being used against her so she's the one on trial despite women in France who've come forward to say DSK has been sexually aggressive toward them as well.
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Weak Impulse Control Hurts More if You're Poor?
Some people will read this article at The New Republic, "Why Can’t More Poor People Escape Poverty?," and without going very far into have a knee-jerk reaction and reject its information because the article can be misread to say that all poor people lack impulse control. That's not what it's saying, but I know that's what that I thought until I realized I was wrong.What the article is saying is that when people who are not poor lack will power, they have more wiggle room to indulge and can make more impulse purchases because they have more disposable income. If you're neither wealthy nor poor, you still have more wiggle room than someone who is poor. As the article suggests, if you have adequate income, choosing to buy an empty calories item such as a doughnut because you feel like eating a doughnut, while probably not the best choice for your health, is not going to make that big a difference in your budget. However, if you're poor and you buy the doughnut, a relatively small purchase for those with adequate income, the ripple effect in your budget will have a greater impact at the end of the month.
It's something we know already, right? If you're earning $7.15 per hour, buying one talle Starbuck's latte per week proportionally hurts your budget more than if you are someone earning $40 per hour. The person earning $40 per hour could buy a venti latte everyday at $5.50 a pop, actually have zero willpower when it comes to resisting the daily purchase, but that indulgence will probably not prevent her from paying her light bill unless she's living waaay above her means.
So, again, the article is not saying that all poor people lack will power or have impulse control issues. It's saying that if you are poor, self-indulgence does more damage. Having more money cloaks lack of will power and may also hide relatively small errors in decision making. If you have money, you can do dumber things. Poverty magnifies bad decisions.
It's sort of like being overweight due to having a medically documented slow metabolism issue such as hypothyroidism. The skinny person with the normal-to-fast metabolism may not be able to resist chocolate milk shakes and can drink two a week and it never shows up on her body, but people assume because the person is skinny she must really work out at the gym and have great willpower although neither is true. The fat person, however, may be working out at the gym daily, and only indulging in a dessert once a month. People nevertheless assume that the fat person's sitting on the couch all day and has never seen a sweet she couldn't refuse. They attribute a host of character flaws to the fat person such as laziness and lack of self discipline, and they are wrong. The skinny person's great metabolism cloaks that she lacks willpower while the fat person must work harder to battle a visible physical circumstance. As the skinny person, due to her great metabolism, is freer to make bad food choices, the person with more money is freer to make bad financial choices, and society attributes supposed better character traits to both the skinny person and the wealthy person.
Having a great metabolism as the result of genetics is a benefit you did not earn. In context of discussing poverty, being born with a great metabolism is analogous to being born with more social and cultural capital. Better social and cultural capital, other than the obvious one of being born to wealthy parents, can be benefits we otherwise don't consider such as being born to a mother or father who spent time with us and taught us how to live on a tight budget or who stayed on top of us about school work and went to PTA meetings. Better social and culture capital can also accumulate later in life hrough having the advantage of going to a school where we encountered better role models and didn't have to worry about gang violence or being born to a family in which no one, including us, has a mental disorder or a substance abuse issue or we may even have social and cultural capital because we were born with some kind of higher intelligence--emotional or academic--or natural self-discipline or some special talent or personality trait that helps us cope better with hardship and drives ambition.
In other words, some people are born with more benefits or through good fortune after birth encounter someone or something in their lives that gives them an extra edge that makes it easier to escape poverty through avenues not totally dependent on their individual hard work. Consequently, if they are not born into poverty but fall into it later, they may have an easier time escaping it, and if they are born into poverty but have one or more of these social and cultural assets, the deck is stacked in their favor to escape poverty. What can we say? Life is not fair.
I'm making this point about differences in our natures and circumstances to counter arguments from people who seem to measure everyone as though we're all exactly the same and have had the same experiences. Usually these people make statements such as, "I pulled myself up by my own bootstraps, and so can everyone else" like everyone is born with boots like them or the same level of social and cultural capital. (When such people do not reference themselves, then they speak of some ancestor who started with what they claim was nothing.)
Once past my first wrong conclusion that the article suggested poor people have less will power than the financially sound, I looked at potential solutions presented. One mentioned a project in a rural area that helped poor people set limits on their bank accounts that helped them to not make impulsive purchases. I know some of us do this for ourselves to keep us from buying that hot pair of heels we just saw at the mall. And isn't this the same idea behind why some of us opt for part of our paychecks to go straight to a savings account? If we don't see the money in our checking account, we're less tempted to use it for something idiotic.
The article also mentions the following:
Third, money itself can go a long way toward altering the dynamic that leads to willpower depletion among the poor. Government transfers of money have proven successful in Mexico and Brazil, for instance. In particular, attaching conditions to these transfers—such as requiring school attendance, regular clinic visits, and savings behavior—may allow for an end-run around the kind of willpower-based poverty traps that too frequently seem to end with the poor making unwise decisions.I think a lot of people struggling with poverty would like this kind of help, but I also think it would be hard, if not impossible, for the government to implement any program like this in the United States. On the conservative side such a proposal would face opposition from people like those mentioned above who perpetuate misconceptions about everyone having boots as well as small government ideologies that only allow for dog-eat-dog economics. On the progressive side, opposition would come from the mindset that government assistance should come with no strings other than proof of poverty--the handout model. Some of my progressive friends feel that in a democracy the government should not be able to tell you what to do with your own resources. I agree and disagree. If the money in your hand came from the government, then it is not your personal resource but a collective resource.
I agree with objections to some welfare-to-work programs that have been proposed to force poor people to work full time in government service to receive housing and food stamps because that's a sneaky way to force someone to work for less than a living wage in a job that keeps them from finding a better job elsewhere. But if the person receiving the assistance elects to do this, then who am I to argue?
I disagree, however, with the idea that any expectation of accountability is insulting or akin to violating civil liberties. I think that if you are receiving money from the collective fund, you owe something to the collective. How we arrive at what that should be is open for debate, but that you don't get something from the collective without giving something back is not, even if what you give back is something that benefits you more than it obviously benefits the collective such as you seeing your children grow up to at least finish high school and stay away from criminal activity, a feat that's not as easy for some poor parents as it is for some middle-class parents. Nevertheless, unfortunately our birth circumstance, such as being born into poverty, may saddle us with hurdles others don't have to jump. We get nowhere by complaining that we should not have to jump them. Life is what it is until we overcome.
Money sent as a gift has no strings attached, but money provided by the government is not a gift; there's a rarely-articulated string attached. The premise under which the government provides money for poor families is not simple compassion. Charities function on the simple compassion premise, not governments. American government should function on compassion plus improving the commonwealth. Helping poor parents feed, clothe, and house their families is an investment in human resources that contributes to domestic stability and tranquility. If the result of how we implement the programs only establishes a system of generational poverty for some families, then we're doing it wrong.
(I feel the same way about corporations that get subsidies but do not produce jobs that pay a living wage and continue to harm the environment. If we don't hold them accountable, then those subsidies are a gift and we're idiots because unlike the poor, "successful" companies shouldn't need government assistance.)
I'm not suggesting that in order to get food stamps you should have to go scrub the White House steps or that work will somehow magically form better character. Being in a work program is good for some people. For others, such as a mother with a one-year-old at home or a young man who could earn more in the private sector if he were taught a skill first, not so much. I'm thinking more in terms of giving people additional assistance that they can choose to accept or reject, but if they accept it, then it comes with strings such as requirements to take a class in money management or letting someone else help you learn what your mama and daddy may not have taught you about planning for the future or determining needs versus wants. We need to stop assuming people have knowledge when their lives indicate otherwise and least provide a way for them to get that knowledge.
Our schools apparently are so burdened with teaching children how to pass standardized test that other important lessons never get taught. If I didn't run into people who have never learned some life skills that go hand-in-hand with life achievements, I wouldn't be saying this.
Many people who struggle with poverty don't need any kind of paternalistic help. They are doing everything they can, including not buying doughnuts and Big Macs, to work their way out of poverty. They may need only seed money, the kind of financial boost up that some of us get from parents. But there are some who need more hands-on guidance toward intangible but practical knowledge because no one in their families ever provided them with such guidance. (The same can be said of some who grew up in middle-class to wealthy families but they've got other resources through family to help them. In cases of generational poverty, no one in the family may know how to dig out. And local community resources have dwindled.)
So, I think this notion that it's an insult to provide a system that requires some kind of accountability is irrational. If people with money can lack self control, then so can people without money. If people with money feel they need help with becoming better parents, then so do people without money. If people with money need lessons about how to plan for the future, then so do people without money, and if some people who have money in our consumer-driven culture need to learn the difference between needs and wants, then some poor people may also need to learn the difference. Therefore, let's stop acting like below the poverty line there exists some special class of Magical Poor People who are more emotionally stable, super-effective at coping with life challenges, and better spiritually adjusted than all the financially stable humans on the planet.
And yes, I have had to apply for public assistance before and been part of what the government and media call "the low-income class." It's a humiliating process, but if someone had told me, "You're entitled to the minimum amount of food stamps, but you can get $10 more if you sit through a few classes on childcare," my answer would not have been "Don't insult me." It would have been, "I'll do it because I love my child, and maybe I'll learn something I don't know. I need help and know that there's no such thing as a free lunch." At the same time, I was born with the kind of social and cultural capital that someone trapped in generational poverty does not have.
Yes, nobody, poor or otherwise should be forced to participate in a program against his/her will, but what about people in poverty who want to participate? Living in poverty limits freedom in ways far more isolating and insidious than a requirement to finish school or manage a meager savings account would. I know poverty is a far more complex issue, and it must be addressed through a variety of measures. I guess I'm just tired of programs that might help being shot down on the basis of abstract and impractical notions of what it means to be free.
Freedom is not free. Freedom comes through a balance of power and accountability. Name any freedom, such as gun ownership, freedom of speech, or the right to pursue happiness, and you will find there's a cost somewhere. There's always a price for freedom.
But this discussion is moot because I sense in this country little desire to help poor families and a stubborn insistence that being poor is always the result of laziness or some kind of genetic deficiency. We're trapped in dual cycles of blaming the victim and indulging victim mentalities that shun accountability. Where's the balance? As a collective, we're stuck on stupid. America, we're in trouble.
Photo: I used that iconic photo from Hurricane Katrina survivors in New Orleans because I think that while it's true the government--local, state, and federal--made excessive mistakes following that catastrophe and race was obviously a factor, too, the suffering we witnessed was also the result of the persistence generational poverty in New Orleans.
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
On John Blake's "Actually, that's not in the Bible" Article
I just read a provocative article by John Blake at CNN.com, "Actually, that's not in the Bible," and I left a comment, but with 6,200 comments and rising, I doubt he or anyone else will read my thoughts there. (The article's been shared on Facebook nearly 46,000 times already) So, here is what I said:I agree with this article, but have two considerations. I think the saying "This too shall pass" is a distillation of a concept in the Book of Ecclesiastes 3, verses 1-8 that begin. "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven." It's the idea that there is a season for trouble and and a season for peace and so troubling times don't last forever.In addition to my comment, lots of people are sharing how other sayings have been extrapolated from other Bible passages, such as the idea that Satan is the serpent in the Garden of Eden, but the Genesis story does not actually mention Satan. I shrugged reading Blake's section on Eve and the serpent as one of the misquoted or misrepresented stories because last semester I had to read Cain by Lord Byron, and an objection to saying Satan was in the Garden is one of the foundation pillars of that play. Read Blake's piece at the CNN website.
Also, while I agree completely that the saying "God helps those who help themselves" goes against a greater theme in the Bible that tells people to help the poor and needy, I also think that Ben Franklin extrapolated the idea of helping oneself from 2 Thessalonians 3: 10–"For even when we were with you, this we commanded you, that if any would not work, neither should he eat."
But we should remember that in the period in history in which this verse was written, society was still largely agrarian. People were not dealing with (the level of) poverty (we see today) and industrialization had not happened yet which contributes to people not being able to "work" for their food. Also the idea that faith in God is manifested through physical deeds is seen in the Book of James. The problem for many Americans is that they try to take concepts from the Bible, repurpose them for their own agendas, and then try to force them onto the country.
Thursday, June 2, 2011
Decoding High School: Why Geeks Shall Inherit the Earth
I saw this segment yesterday on CNN with Alexandra Robbins, author of the new book Why Geeks Shall Inherit the Earth. I used to say regularly to children who complained about not fitting in at school, "Geeks rule the world," and sometimes I'd end up in a debate about the difference between geeks and nerds. If you check Amazon, you'll discover a lot of books have the word "geeks" in the title, but the last time I bought one it was Geeks: How Two Lost Boys Rode the Internet Out of Idaho by Jon Katz.
The Katz book is about two specific "geeks," misfits who were bullied, and how they succeeded and found their place through network technology, while the Robbins book is about different types of high school students and where they fit or don't fit in on the teen social hierarchy chart. Here is the publisher's description as posted to Amazon:
*Now a New York Times bestseller* In a smart, entertaining, reassuring book that reads like fiction, Alexandra Robbins manages to cross Gossip Girl with Freaks and Geeks and explain the fascinating psychology and science behind popularity and outcasthood. She reveals that the things that set students apart in high school are the things that help them stand out later in life. Robbins follows seven real people grappling with the uncertainties of high school social life, including:If I give credence to Robbins's classifications, I don't know where I would have fit in under them when I was a teenager. When you throw being overweight in to the equation, outcomes go askew.
- The Loner, who has withdrawn from classmates since they persuaded her to unwittingly join her own hate club;
- The Popular Bitch, a cheerleading captain both seduced by and trapped within her clique's perceived prestige;
- The Nerd, whose differences cause students to laugh at him and his mother to needle him for not being "normal";
- The New Girl, determined to stay positive as classmates harass her for her mannerisms and target her because of her race;
- The Gamer, an underachiever in danger of not graduating, despite his intellect and his yearning to connect with other students;
- The Weird Girl, who battles discrimination and gossipy politics in school but leads a joyous life outside of it;
- The Band Geek, who is alternately branded too serious and too emo, yet annually runs for class president.
In the middle of the year, Robbins surprises her subjects with a secret challenge--experiments that force them to change how classmates see them. Robbins intertwines these narratives--often triumphant, occasionally heartbreaking, and always captivating--with essays exploring subjects like the secrets of popularity, being excluded doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, why outsiders succeed, how schools make the social scene worse--and how to fix it. The Geeks Shall Inherit the Earth is not just essential reading for students, teachers, parents, and anyone who deals with teenagers, but for all of us, because at some point in our lives we've all been on the outside looking in.
Also, I went to a predominantly white, all-girls boarding school that was trying to integrate its student body for the first two years of high school and a predominantly black high school for the second two years. Cultural differences played a role in my perception of high school, but I would not go back to high school for a million dollars, even if youth came with the deal, unless I could take everything I know about life now with me. I think without reading her book, I would agree with the first classification, "The Loner," a person any one of us can become if we internalize being rejected.
I may buy Robbins's book just to see if I agree with any of it based on what I've observed of teens today. It's a bestseller so apparently a lot of people are still trying to figure out what the hell happened in high school.
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Is Your TV Watching You to Help Marketers Sell You More?
According to this CNN report, your television may be watching you, sort of, through your cable box: what you watch on TV can give advertisers insight into who you are and what you're likely to buy. Armed with the data collected from viewers' cable boxes about their viewing tastes, an advertiser can send commercials to a television screen customized to the interests of viewers in a specific home while they watch shows such as American Idol or Being Human. It's possible that your next door neighbor, who may be watching the same show, will see an ad for the same product or service but the ad he or she sees will be slightly different, will promote features that would appeal more to your neighbor's personality rather than to yours.
Through the data collected from cable boxdes, advertisers are leveraging the same power of targeted marketing they leverage through collecting data based on Internet browsing habits. Should we thank or blame Google for this technology? It's its success online with targeted marketing that may be driving this marketing method. Keep in mind that the companies making money from this say that it also helps consumers by decluttering their ad streams, narrowing commercial appeals to the viewer's interests so that viewers don't see ads for products or services they're unlikely to ever use.
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Jay Smooth on MLK's Letter from a Birmingham Jail
In the video below, Jay Smooth recites excerpts from Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.'s "Letter from a Birmingham Jail" on the topic of extremism. You can read Jay's post at Illdoctrine.com.
I listened and thought that we have Talk Like a Pirate day and Talk Like Shakespeare Day. Perhaps we should also have a Speak the Words of MLK Day.
I listened and thought that we have Talk Like a Pirate day and Talk Like Shakespeare Day. Perhaps we should also have a Speak the Words of MLK Day.
Monday, February 7, 2011
Public Radio and Why I Wish I Drove More
What I miss about driving less is getting lost in a radio show, specifically narratives on NPR via WWNO here in New Orleans. I can't seem to listen to talk or narratives on radio sitting still in my bedroom or living room because my mind starts to travel to all the things I need to do in my house, and if I try to do chores and listen, I don't enjoy the story the way I can in the car.This Saturday, February 5, however, I was zipping through the city and Metairie and ha the pleasure of listening to This American Life.
I could not wipe the smile from my face as I heard the last segment, "Contrails of My Tears" on 426: Tough Room 2011. Brett Martin discussed the tendency to cry at movies on airplanes. I don't wait for airplane rides to cry watching movies or even sappy commercials, but I related to the discussion.
Monday, January 24, 2011
Oprah Welcomes Half-Sister Patricia
The talk show host has made it clear that Patricia is the daughter of her mother Vernita Lee and is not the daughter of Oprah's father, Vernon Winfrey. Also, Patricia, who has two children of her own, resembles Oprah's deceased sister of the same name, Pat, in an eerie way. Read more at WritingJunkie.net, where you will find video and more links to Oprah's family reunion story.
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Security Guard Fired for Posting Woman Falls in Fountain Video to YouTube after Texter Gets Lawyer
UPDATE: Fox News reports that Marrero has a criminal record and some speculate that she may have staged her fall to get money. The speculation is understandable, but nevertheless posits a less probable scenario unless Marrero's detractors are saying the security guard was also involved with the staging. If the security guard had not caught the fall on tape, laughed and put it on YouTube, and the whole world did not sit back and laugh or ridicule her, then what proof would Marrero have that she suffered emotional insult?
Also, it's pretty hard to predict which YouTube video will go viral. If the guard knows how to do that, then that's where his fortune lies.
She got up and walked away physically unharmed, she admits, and it was her fault that she fell (not paying attention while texting and walking). She seems to know she should not have been walking and texting and be only angry that the guard laughed and posted the video rather than doing his job to make sure that she was unharmed?
So, who can she sue other than than the security company for which the guard worked? They've already fired the guy, who was clearly being irresponsible and an idiot on the job, but is that the company's fault? So, where are the grounds for a lawsuit? A staged fall with a lawsuit over the YouTube posting only works if the security guard was in on the staging, too, right?
Some attorney's said the fountain should have a railing. I say, "No. Marrero should watch where she's going."
As for her having a criminal record for other pending charges against her for theft, while that doesn't sound good, it has nothing to do with the what the security guard did (unless, of course, he was in on it).
Also, it's pretty hard to predict which YouTube video will go viral. If the guard knows how to do that, then that's where his fortune lies.
She got up and walked away physically unharmed, she admits, and it was her fault that she fell (not paying attention while texting and walking). She seems to know she should not have been walking and texting and be only angry that the guard laughed and posted the video rather than doing his job to make sure that she was unharmed?
So, who can she sue other than than the security company for which the guard worked? They've already fired the guy, who was clearly being irresponsible and an idiot on the job, but is that the company's fault? So, where are the grounds for a lawsuit? A staged fall with a lawsuit over the YouTube posting only works if the security guard was in on the staging, too, right?
Some attorney's said the fountain should have a railing. I say, "No. Marrero should watch where she's going."
As for her having a criminal record for other pending charges against her for theft, while that doesn't sound good, it has nothing to do with the what the security guard did (unless, of course, he was in on it).
Saturday, June 19, 2010
Reversible Poetry from Twitter: Your Brain on Self-Branding
A Brand Named Human
By Nordette N. Adams
People play.
See me when you try to care how I see.
See you when you stop
chasing fame.
See me when you learn my name
Stop tripping 'cuz
I'm deep!
Lost to you and the games,
I'm deep under midnight
in what you call blue funk
Howling in my soul's blues trunk
after hanging low to weep
See you when I rise for air.
See me.
See me when I rise for air
after hanging low to weep,
howling in my soul's blues trunk
in what you call blue funk.
I'm deep under midnight.
Lost to you and the games,
stop tripping 'cuz
I'm deep!
See me when you learn my name,
chasing fame.
See you when you stop.
See me when you try to care how I see.
People play.
© 2010 Nordette N. Adams
Sometimes on Twitter, I don't concern myself with people but the interface itself and how writing fiction or poetry that's longer than 140 characters might be read on the micro-blogging site. People's tweets sometimes are read out of context, and I've seen those kinds of readings start arguments. The person who's been misunderstood will usually tweet to the person picking the fight, "That's not what I meant when I said XYZ. Read my Twitter stream!" And then if the person does, what does he or she see?
A seasoned Twitter member knows to read the tweets backwards in order of the time they were twittered, but someone unfamiliar with Twitter may look at the tweets and do what comes naturally, read from the top down. If it's a poem that takes up more than one tweet, then what the poet intended--meter, rhyme scheme, meaning or flow in general--may get lost. So, sometimes, like on Twitter yesterday, I experiment with writing poetry that can be read backwards or forwards.
At the moment of writing this poem on Twitter, I was thinking about the tenuous nature of social media and Internet relationships in this era of branding the self, something I think writers should forget about until they actually publish a book or two.
Labels:
depression,
I Try,
life,
poetry,
social media
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Ikea Gives Us Furniture as Robots
Ikea Robotics - Animals from adam lassy on Vimeo.
I saw this at Fast Company and my first thought was, "Just what I need. Furniture that runs from me." My daughter kept asking, "But why?"
For his project, called Ikea robotics, Lassy transformed a Lack table and chair into mobile, wireless robots with "animal behaviors," which automatically reconfigure through a calculated response to the people in the room--depending on the furniture's mood. Yes, its mood. Interior decorators are so yesterday!Ahh, but it's not for real, is it? Read more.
The robotic furniture's animal behaviors include timidness, neediness, over-excitedness, and anger. Using attached proximity sensors, buttons, and an over-head camera that tracks people's movements in the room, Lassy was able to make the furniture move based on pre-programmed "moods."
Monday, February 1, 2010
Exploring Better Living: Positive Thinking
A two-part post that I wrote for BlogHer.com is now live. Part One is "Can You Change Your Life With Positive Thinking? Yes." Originally it was entitled "Do we underestimate positive thinking?" I suspect we do.The focus of Part Two is an interview with the founders of GivesMeHope.com and Operation Beautiful, Gaby Montero and Caitlin Boyle respectively. Both these young women believe that positive thinking will lead anyone to a better life.
And I thought it would be a good time to post an image of the fleur-de-lys (fleur-de-lis) because 1.) I'm rooting for the New Orleans Saints in the Super Bowl and 2.) the fleur-de-lis, which in French means lily flower, is an actual flower that blooms annually. It's a type of iris that has become strongly associated with heraldry and royalty, but using the image the fleur-de-lis in this post, I reflect on its history as a symbol of hope, faith, rebirth, and enlightenment. Aside from Who Dat, another battle cry for this season has been "Believe."
The print here is by artist Linda Paul.
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